21 Tips for How to Potty Train Your Toddler
21 Expert Tips to Potty Train Your Toddler (From a Mom of Two!)
Potty training is one of those big parenting milestones that can feel both exciting and overwhelming. As a mom of two, I’ve been through it twice—and let’s just say, no two kids are the same when it comes to ditching diapers! Some toddlers pick it up quickly, while others need a bit more patience (and a lot more cleaning supplies).
After trial, error, and plenty of accidents, I’ve gathered 21 potty training tips that will make the process smoother for both you and your little one.
When to Start Potty Training
1. Watch for Signs of Readiness
Every child is different, but common signs of potty training readiness include:
✔ Staying dry for longer periods
✔ Showing interest in the toilet
✔ Telling you when they’re wet or soiled
✔ Pulling down/up their pants independently
If your child isn’t showing these signs, it may be best to wait rather than force it.
2. Consider Their Age
Most kids start potty training between 18 months and 3 years old. My first was ready at 2.5, but some kids need a little more time. Every child is different and starting too early can lead to frustration and setbacks.
3. Pick the Right Time
Avoid potty training during big life changes (a new sibling, moving, starting daycare). A stable routine makes it easier for toddlers to learn new habits. If possible, try to choose a period of time when you know you aren’t going to have to leave the house for at least a few days. A long weekend is a great opportunity to start!
Prepping for Potty Training Success
4. Get the Right Potty Gear
Some kids prefer a small potty chair, while others like a seat that attaches to the big toilet. Try both and see what works best! When we first started with my son, he was scared of the big potty so this smaller one worked better for him because it was less intimidating. After a few weeks, he was comfortable with the big potty and we moved to this one built in to the toilet seat and we love it!
You will also want to invest in a travel potty to keep in the car for pottying on the go. This travel potty has been a life saver for us and I recommend it to everyone I know!
5. Let Them Choose Fun Underwear
Letting your toddler pick out special “big kid” underwear with their favorite characters can make potty training more exciting.
6. Read Potty Training Books Together
Books like Daniel Tiger Potty and Dino Potty were great options help toddlers understand the process in a fun way.
7. Use a Potty Training Doll or Stuffed Animal
Showing their toy how to use the potty can make the concept more relatable and fun.
8. Set Up a Reward System
Stickers, small treats, or extra bedtime stories can be great motivators. Just be careful not to overdo the bribes! CLICK HERE to download my FREE potty training chart!
Potty Training in Action
9. Start with Bare Bottom Time
Letting your toddler go diaper-free at home helps them recognize the urge to go. Place the potty nearby so they can reach it easily. It is best to not use a pull up during this time becuase it feels so similar to a diaper.
10. Establish a Routine
Take your child to the potty first thing in the morning, after meals, before naps, and before bed. Regular potty breaks reduce accidents.
11. Teach Them to Listen to Their Body
Instead of just asking, “Do you need to go?” (which often gets a “No!”), say, “It looks like you might need the potty. Let’s try!”
12. Demonstrate How It’s Done
If you’re comfortable, let them see how older siblings or you use the toilet. Kids learn a lot by watching!
13. Make It Fun with Songs and Games
Sing a potty song, let them bring a book, or use a timer with a fun sound to remind them it’s potty time.
14. Teach Proper Hygiene
Help them wipe front to back (especially for girls), flush, and wash their hands every time.
Handling Accidents & Setbacks
15. Expect Accidents
Accidents will happen, and that’s okay! Stay calm and say, “Oops! Let’s try to use the potty next time.”
16. Don’t Punish or Shame
Reacting with frustration can cause anxiety and slow progress. Encourage them to try again next time.
17. Address Poop Anxiety
Some kids are scared to poop in the potty. Let them sit and relax, read a book, or blow bubbles to help them go.
18. Use a Nighttime Strategy
Daytime training happens first, but dry nights can take longer. Use waterproof sheets and take them to the potty before bed and in the middle of the night if needed.
Sticking with It & Troubleshooting
19. Stay Positive and Consistent
Consistency is key! Even if progress is slow, keep encouraging them and sticking to the routine.
20. Adjust if It’s Not Working
If your toddler is resisting, take a break and try again in a few weeks. Sometimes waiting is the best strategy.
21. Celebrate the Wins!
Each small success is a big deal—whether it’s peeing in the potty for the first time or going a full day accident-free. Cheer them on!
Final Thoughts
Potty training is a journey, not a race. Some kids take days, while others take months, and that’s okay! The key is to be patient, supportive, and flexible.
If you’re feeling frustrated, just remember—this phase won’t last forever. Soon enough, you’ll be saying goodbye to diapers for good!
What’s your best potty training tip? Share in the comments!
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